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Fostering Friendship In Today’s World


The past weeks have been filled with challenges.  Bombs falling on Israel, a rise in anti-Semitism throughout the country including things locally.  The news is filled with reports of increased Jew hatred and even Aaron Keyak, the US National Jewish Engagement Director, tweeted, “if you fear for your life or physical safety, take off your kippah and hide your (Star of David)”. Google’s Chief of Diversity was found to have stated in a 2007 tweet that Jews have an “insatiable appetite for war” (he has since been reassigned).  Officials at Rutgers University made a statement against anti-Semitism and then retracted it because it upset the anti-Israel, anti-Semitic population.  It’s easy to get depressed and be filled with worry and concern.


And then something happens like on Tuesday.  I got an email from Amanda Jacobson, both a parent and volunteer leader in our community, about her daughter’s upcoming Bat Mitzvah, and her Bat Mitzvah project.  Sammy Nappi, Amanda’s daughter, had a desire to expand the scope and opportunity for people to get involved and make a difference in our local community.  We met on Tuesday afternoon and my hope and faith were given an incredible boost.

For her project, Sammy is doing something she is calling, “Fierce Foster Friends”.  In Sammy’s own words, “Everyone deserves a loving family and a home of their own. Your family makes the home and foster children don’t have either a family or a home to call their own. Foster kids are often moved from temporary home to temporary home with few belongings and fewer friends.


The items we collect for them can make a foster child feel loved, wanted and seen by the community.”

Sammy is committed to collecting items for foster children and making a difference in the lives of people who don’t even know her.  She has done her research and knows that the items most needed are:

Backpacks, purses


Hand Sanitizer

Fuzzy Socks

Good toothbrushes and toothpaste

Silk pillow or bonnet for children of color

Tampons, pads

With all that is going on during the pandemic, it’s easy to forget about foster children.  To be honest, despite all the things I have been paying attention to during the past 16 months, foster children have not crossed my mind even once until she brought them up.

Hearing her passion for helping others, specifically those who ‘aren’t as fortunate as me’ was inspirational.  I do my best to help my children understand just how lucky they are and how fortunate we are as a family and to hear another child’s appreciation of what they have and how they wanted to help others who aren’t as fortunate was truly moving.  Her eyes lit up as she talked about the time she has spent with foster children and how important it is to her to help them and make a difference in the world.

I found myself ruminating on this throughout the rest of the week.  This is a core value of the Jewish Federation of Greater Orlando – making the world a better place, starting in our local community but also throughout the Jewish world and in Israel.  Through our partnership city of Kiryat Motzkin and the projects we fund there to help Holocaust Survivors and children at risk to our Coleman Israel  Scholarships to help teens in Orlando visit Israel and have a meaningful immersive experience; from our partnership with CC’s Wish List which gets new clothes to people in need to our new partnership with Temple B’nai Torah in Boca Raton’s TLC Program’s Little Free Pantry, bringing free little food pantries to Orlando; from our Food Cart from the Heart, ensuring those in need in our community have access to fresh fruits, vegetables, meat and dairy to our partnership with Jewish Family Services to ensure there is a community Rabbi available for those in need, the Federation’s goal is to make our community better, stronger and more vibrant.  As I write this, I hear the theme song from the old TV show, The Six Million Dollar Man in my head, as we can build it, “Better, Stronger, Faster.”  Your Jewish Federation is invested in making the lives of everybody in our community better.  We only do this through your help, both in volunteering and financial support which make these efforts happen.

I hope that Sammy Nappi’s words, efforts, and her Bat Mitzvah project inspires you the way it has inspired me.  I hope you will bring something to The Roth Family JCC lobby to drop off in our collection box for Fierce Foster Friends.  I hope you will make an effort to get more involved in our community – every organization, agency, and synagogue can use your help to make our community ‘better, stronger, faster’.  We can all do a little bit to change our local community and by changing our local community, we change the world.

Together we can change our local community which changes the world. 

Last night, I sat in the JCC auditorium as we held our first hybrid program.  Approximately 30 people joined in person while many more joined us on Zoom for our community’s B’riut program on Substance Abuse in the Jewish community.  This is truly a community program as nearly every Jewish organization, agency, and synagogue has agreed this is important and to be a part of the effort.   It felt so good to be in a room with other people and to hear talking and interaction.  I hadn’t realized how much I had really missed it.


As we listened to the speakers on the panel speak, it was incredibly moving.  Ashlynn Douglas-Barnes, the Clinical Director of Jewish Family Services (JFS) was our moderator and has also been a key driving leader in the creation of B’riut.  If you ever need a place to start with questions or addressing substance use disorder and needing to know what to do next, she and JFS are the place to begin.


Sheriff Leema from Seminole County was our first speaker.  It was truly incredible as he explained the data about addiction, the changes that have created the current crisis, and the impact he has seen in Seminole County.  There were more than 100 accidental overdose deaths pre-Covid and during Covid that spiked by 37%!   His officers now carry Narcan to help save lives.  Listen to a well-educated senior law enforcement officer talk about a totally different approach to public safety was inspiring.   Hearing him talk about how it isn’t about criminal charges but about helping sick people get well was refreshing.   In a time when law enforcement faces incredible criticism, this was another example to me about how lucky we are in Central Florida to have the law enforcement leadership we do.


Michal Osteen spoke next.  Her personal tragedy of losing her son Ari to an accidental overdose has been public and she has devoted her life to ensuring no other family has to endure this tragedy.  Between Sheriff Leema and Michal, it was made abundantly clear that fentanyl is now in every type of substance and it’s impossible for the person using to know if there is fentanyl in it or not.  When asked about ‘how people could find safe drugs from having been cut with fentanyl’, Sheriff Leema put it best when he said, “Safe drugs are called medicine.  Otherwise, there are no safe drugs.”


Our third speaker, Dr. Biff Kramer, has been in recovery from addiction for 40 years and has been a leader in creating the model that encourages impaired medical professionals to seek help without risk of automatically losing their medical license.  I was deeply saddened when talked about how 40 years ago when he went to treatment in Atlanta and along with a handful of other Jews in the program, they reached out to the Jewish community to get support and were turned away.  Hearing his gratitude that the Jewish community is doing the opposite right now was heartwarming and highlighted just how important this work in our community, by our community truly is.


Our next speaker, John LeBron, is a younger person in recovery.  He highlighted the challenge of being Jewish and seeking help, the stigma that exists, and how important it is to have others to connect with.  He also emphasized how important getting the entire family educated about addiction really is, since the family system often contributed to addiction and can often enable relapse if change doesn’t happen.


The final speaker was Houston Spore, also a person in recovery.  He works with project Opioid, which is dedicated to stopped deaths from opioid overdose.  They provide free Narcan, a drug easily administered, which reverses overdoses to enable the person to be alive while 911 is called and emergency services are called.  Everybody attending in person was given Narcan to take home.  The amazing thing about Narcan is that if it’s not an opioid overdoes, Narcan simply does nothing.   And if it is an opioid overdose, it can save lives.  Anybody can access their free Narcan by going to their website, https://projectopioid.org/, and fill out the form.  In a week or two, it will arrive in your mailbox.


The question-and-answer sessions was robust as this is a complex and important issue.  The entire session was recorded and will be available on the Federation’s YouTube page for viewing.  


You may find yourself wondering, “Why is the Jewish Federation doing this”?  It goes to our core mission, taking care of the needs of our Jewish community.  No longer can we pretend that addiction doesn’t occur in the Jewish community.  No longer can we pretend that members of our community aren’t dying because of drug addiction and the opioid crisis.  No longer can we be unprepared to deal with this life-threatening disease.  The Jewish principle of Pikuach nefesh demands that we act.  I’m proud of our community, our agencies, organizations, and synagogues who are stepping up to take on this responsibility.  I’m proud that we are not allowing this to remain in the shadows and are working to remove the stigma so nobody has to die due to embarrassment.  


Together we can change our local community which changes the world.  As a community member both involved in the creation of B’riut and who attended our panel last night, I have hope that we are changing our Central Florida Jewish Community and will continue to do so.  


Shabbat Shalom,



Positive Power

As we come near the end of May, the end of the school year, and the beginning of summer, it has certainly been an eventful few weeks.  From the hate group that came to both the Jewish Community Campus in Maitland and Chabad of South Orlando to the more than 4,000 rockets fired by Hamas into Israel to the end of the school year and preparations for Camp at Machane Ohev and Camp J at both the Rosen and Roth Family JCCs, Brave CHOICES, J Ball/Big Night In for the Roth Family JCC, the Party FORE the People at the Congregation for Reform Judaism this Saturday night, the upcoming Jewish Academy of Orlando premiere of Star Warts – The Umpire Strikes Back, the upcoming B’ri’ut panel on Substance Abuse in the Jewish community, the release of the Pew Study on America’s Jewish population, graduation ceremonies at both the Rosen and Roth Family JCCs ECLC, the Jewish Academy of Orlando, Orlando Torah Academy, UCF, Rollins, Stetson, and both OCPS and SCPS, it has been an incredible month.  I’m exhausted just writing about it.

Why did I just spend all this time writing about the events in May in Jewish Orlando?  It’s because I believe in our community.  We are large and growing – the upcoming results from our 2020 Orlando Jewish Community Study will show just how large – and diverse.  There are truly options for everybody to get involved.  As we witness the violence in Israel, the antisemitism worldwide, in the United States, in Florida, and even here in Orlando, it’s easy to think that it’s better not to participate or that there is nothing worth participating.  And that’s where you are WRONG!  Our synagogues, Jewish agencies and organizations are fille with meaningful, interesting, and fun content.  This summer will be filled with opportunities to join together in person once again.  I encourage you to take a look at what is offered in our amazing Jewish community.  I encourage to take a risk and try out something that looks interesting that you may not have tried before.  I encourage you to really give our Jewish community a chance to show you how special we are and how important you are.

As I sat at my youngest son Matthew’s graduation from High School this week, I found myself thinking about both how fast the years have gone by and how much we have been enriched by our Jewish community.  The USY, BBYO, and JSU events attended, basketball and working out at the JCC, the time I have spent learning with local Rabbis, the friends created and friendships deepened.  There are times during the year where we get to reflect and the changing of the seasons is one.  As we transition to summer, as more people get vaccinated and we are able to gather in person, as mask requirements get lifted, I encourage you to invest in our Jewish community.  Your return will be far beyond anything you expect.

Shabbat Shalom


Our Jewish Orlando Community Wishes for Peace

Our Jewish Orlando Community Wishes for Peace

I have spent the last few days in contemplation about what is happening in Israel right now. Having been to Israel 17 times, Israel is a passion of mine. It is a country I love deeply and one where I have a strong connection. I am a proud Zionist and don’t shrink from the label or consider it a four-letter word.

I am so passionate about Israel that I invest personal time as a board member of the Center For Israel Education (CIE) based out of Atlanta. If you want to read the fact-based history of the Modern State of Israel from source documents, go to www.israeled.org. You will likely spend much more time than you expected as you learn more about the real history of Israel.

I have also had the opportunity to spend time meeting with leaders of the Palestinian Civil Society in November 2019 as a part of the Encounter Program. This was a transformative experience that helped me see many other issues while also confirming some things I already believed to be true. You can read my blog posts about my experience here. During these challenging times, I found it helpful to remember the many different Palestinian voices I heard.

It’s often said that “Israel lives in a tough neighborhood.” There is no doubt that is a true statement. It is also a neighborhood that measures time in centuries, not hours and minutes. It is a neighborhood that while there are many similarities, is very different from ours in the United States. It’s something we must remember when we think about the Middle East. We also need to be careful about generalizations. We can’t talk about ‘Israelis and Palestinians’ as one voice. We can’t talk about ‘Jews and Arabs’ as if every Jew or every Palestinian think and act the same. There is no excuse for either the violence against Jews in Jewish-Arab neighborhoods or against Arabs by Jews in these same neighborhoods. My many experiences in Israel taught me about the many voices of Israelis and my experience with Encounter taught me about the many voices of Palestinians.

Most Israelis and Palestinians do not want war, do not want to see rockets flying all over Israel, and do not want the death and destruction that is occurring. Unfortunately, Hamas and the Palestinian Authority (PA) are not among them. Both use terror tactics to their benefit. Hamas fires missiles from hospitals, mosques, and schools, using children and families as human shields. Having visited the Aida ‘refugee camp’ in Bethlehem, I have seen the power of hatred and generations of taught hatred firsthand. I have also seen and met Israelis who believe that all of Judea and Samaria belong to the Jewish people and as a result, do not respect the rights of Palestinians living there. I have heard the frustrations of good people who only want to live in peace with Israel and who are not allowed to do so by Hamas, the PA, and the Israeli government.  I have gone through a checkpoint as the Palestinians do, which unfortunately is necessary to stop terror, and saw how degrading and awful it can be to do that day after day just to get to work.

What we are seeing in the news is not what most Israelis and Palestinians want. It is what terrorists want. It is what those who believe all the land is theirs want. It is a small group that unfortunately has access to power and weapons. It is what Iran and Syria want which is why they fund these terrorist groups.

My heart breaks daily as I think of my Israeli family and friends and what they are living through now. Each story I hear hurts a little bit more. 1,400 rockets launched in 36 hours. Can you imagine what just 1 rocket launched at an American city would do to us?

I think of my cousin Lisa, who made Aliyah in 1980, and her family. Will her children be called up from the reserves? Will they be safe in Jerusalem? I think of Margot and Tamar and their three young children who also live in Jerusalem. With Margot visiting the US, how are Tamar and the kids dealing with this? I think of Aaron and Sharon Weil, visiting Israel now to be with their three children who live there. My son Evan, friends with Nadav, their youngest, follows him on social media and shared his concerns last night. I think of my friend Jonathan who flew to Israel over the weekend and hopes to be able to hug his children who live in Israel. I think of my friend Zaq’s three children who made Aliyah and live in Israel. His youngest is preparing to be called up from the reserves. I think of David and Orly Diamond here in Orlando, worrying about their children currently serving in the IDF. I think of all my Israeli friends whom I met on birthright trips while they were in the army and joined our trip. Each friend and their personal story hurts a little bit more.

My heart also breaks for my Palestinian friends. I think of Ali Abu-Awaad and his efforts to help the Palestinian people take responsibility and control of their future. Of his efforts to ensure Palestinians understand the power of non-violence and the need to create their own infrastructure to build their own country based on peace and love. I think of Osama and the personal transformation he went through. His carrying a kippah in case he was invited to Shabbat dinner. I think of how this must retraumatize him. I think of Suzan in Bethlehem and her olive trees and women’s art store. I think of Mohammed and his beautiful family in East Jerusalem. His work takes him into Gaza for humanitarian purposes. Was he there when this started and is he stuck? Is he ok and safe? How about his wife and young son?

As we watch what is happening, I urge you to think beyond stereotypes and what you ‘heard’ or ‘know’. I encourage you to learn more than what the news shows you or what a biased media outlet may show. Learn about the history and learn about the realities. While Hamas is responsible for the rockets flying, there are real people who are being impacted. We can never lose our humanity in understanding that there are many who want peace, who want to live together, and who fight against what is happening now. That’s my commitment.

Am Yisrael Chai,


Our Orlando Jewish Community is Strong

Many of you know about the visit to our campus yesterday by a virulent anti-Semitic group. We were alerted to their presence in Florida by the Secure Community Network (SCN), a program of The Jewish Federations of North America, late last week. Along with SCN, the Anti-Defamation League (ADL) kept us updated on their status. Our Campus Security Director, Jake Silverman, had been monitoring them since their arrival to Florida and was in regular contact with local, State, and Federation law enforcement to keep us safe.


On Thursday afternoon, Jake’s cell phone began buzzing as local, state, and federal law enforcement offices alerted him that this group was targeting the Holocaust Center on our Jewish Community Campus for their next location to spew their Jew-hatred. With thirty (30) minutes notice, Jake was in contact with law enforcement and within minutes, Maitland Police officers were on campus, preparing to keep us safe. Mike, our security officer, secured the entrance to campus to ensure they would not be able to enter campus. Orange County Sheriff’s officers arrived to provide support and other local police departments, sheriff’s offices, the FBI and Homeland Security offered support if we needed them. It was an incredible thing to see as our efforts to improve our security on campus were clearly shown. Jake’s leadership in keeping us safe has always been something I have valued and he truly exhibited how extraordinary he is during this incident. Mike goes above and beyond to keep everybody on campus safe and while he always makes us feel safer by his presence, his true value, experience, and passion for our campus was on exhibit. The relationships with the Maitland Police Department and other local, state, and federal law enforcement paid dividends as we had their full support.


When this hate group showed up and was denied access to campus, they parked across the street and began spewing their bigotry, ignorance, and hate. It was disgusting and heartbreaking. I was overcome with emotion seeing and hearing them in a manner that was unexpected and a bit overpowering. As I turned around and looked at campus, I was amazed at the dichotomy that was occurring. On one side of the street were anti-Semites, Jew-haters, people filled with hate and evil. On the other side were beautiful children engaged in learning, being picked up by their parents and grandparents, JCC members coming to work out or swim, seniors coming to enjoy Jewish life on our campus. It was a sight filled with love, joy, and happiness.


Anti-Semitism is real and the power of Jew-hatred was on display yesterday. Also on display was the power of community. The national Secure Community Networks and ADL helping alert and prepare us, the planning by our security team and the relationships with law enforcement, the hardening of the campus that continues to occur year after year to keep us safe. People reaching out with love, care, and concern. I heard last night from a representative of the Muslim community in Orlando, reaching out in support.

Last night was Brave Choices, our signature women’s event. We honored 28 amazing women last night and as I watched the program, I was inspired, excited, and empowered, not only by the 28 women who we honored but by the 100 women of various ages involved in the event. Hearing them talk about the Jewish community in Orlando, of the passion they have, of the future of Jewish life, and how they are inspired was beautiful. Hearing the singing in the beginning was powerful and I encourage you to watch it on our YouTube page to be inspired as well. On a day when Jew-hatred and bigotry was front and center, this event highlighted the beauty and love of our community.


We are an incredible Jewish community in Orlando. While yesterday afternoon was certainly challenging, it also gave us a chance to truly see the beauty we have. I encourage you to reach out and be a part of this special community.

Shabbat Shalom,


Round Four – The Championship Round – Passover Madness

We have made it to the finals of Passover Madness.  While we had some upsets along the way, it is no surprise who is playing for the championship.  Matzo Ball Soup against Brisket.  Before I get into the analysis of the championship round, here are some thoughts.


I loved how Passover Madness engaged people to discuss Passover food and their favorite dishes and memories.  As I read the comments that went back and forth, I found myself reminiscing about my childhood and the way Passover foods (and Jewish foods in general) bring back so many special memories.  The smell of oil, potatoes, and onions always brings me back to my Grandma Esther’s (z’l) kitchen.  I see her smiling face every time I breathe in those smells and wish she had gotten to meet her great-grandchildren.  When I think of or see Borscht, my stomach no longer gets queasy, I think of my Grandpa Len (z’l) and Grandpa Si (z’l) and how they loved their borscht.  What a treat it was for them even though I never liked it.  It’s almost enough to make me want to try it now (but not really).


When I think of horseradish, I always remember my cousin Eric (z’l) and our massive horseradish eating contests.  Who could get the biggest spoonful in their mouth, eat it, and survive the heat?  When the horseradish at our Seder this year was incredibly hot, I flashed back to him and if this would have been the year he won (we always tied, neither of us could stand losing) because I just couldn’t get a big spoonful down.


I brought my homemade charoset, macaroons, latkes, and Passover cake (new recipe that was easy to make and so delicious – it’ll be shared next year) to my parents’ house during Passover this year, the memories of our big Passover family gatherings flooded back.  The house filled with family and our annual whiffle ball game with my Grandpa Si umpiring and the one year my Grandma Esther pitched.


Passover, and Judaism in general, is about memory.  We remember our exodus from Egypt.  We remember our loved ones and gather together to celebrate what it means to be family and to be part of the Jewish people.  Thank you to everybody who participated in Passover Madness and commented on their favorite foods.  It made this year’s Passover that much more special for me.


Now onto the matchup!!


This is a high-level, difficult matchup.  You have the traditional ‘Jewish Penicillin’ in Matzo Ball Soup against the elite meat, Brisket.


While you can order a brisket sandwich at most BBQ places in town and enjoy it, it’s not Jewish Brisket.  There is a difference.  The sauce, the juiciness (even when slightly overcooked), the excitement of it on the serving plate, and how that serving plate is always empty at the end of the meal while the turkey or chicken serving dish always seems to have plenty of leftovers.  Brisket is high-end Jewish food.  A good cut is expensive and worth it.  It’s a treat.  It’s special.  While there are tons of recipes for Jewish food, it seems every Brisket recipe ends up tasting basically the same.  It’s the winning lottery ticket of Jewish foods.  So how could the winning lottery ticket of Jewish foods ever lose?


Matzo Ball soup presents the challenge.  While Brisket is the lottery ticket of Jewish foods, Matzo Ball soup is the base, the foundation, and the core.  It’s filled with chicken and scraps.  The chicken bones give flavor to the broth and the skin gives us that wonderful schmaltz that ‘sticks to your bones’.  When you aren’t feeling well, it’s Matzo Ball soup that is the go-to.  And unlike Brisket, the matzo balls are different in every house.  Some are floaters.  Some are sinkers.  Some use seltzer and some don’t.  Everybody has their own twist to make their matzo balls special.  While I prefer floaters, when I get sinkers at somebody else’s house, I don’t complain, I eat them and still enjoy them (just not as much).  Matzo Ball soup isn’t just Passover, it’s Shabbat.  It’s Rosh Hashanah.   It’s any special dinner and sometimes it’s just what’s for dinner.




In this epic battle, who comes out on top.  Early in the tournament, I couldn’t see how Brisket could lose.  It’s just so delicious and so special.  It’s not an everyday food which makes it more exciting and more delicious.  It’s a favorite.   But Matzo Ball Soup just keeps on chugging.  It’s comfort.  It’s home.  It’s family.  It’s delicious.


So here’s how I picked the winner.  In my house, the smell of Matzo Ball Soup on the stove gets my kids out of their rooms, away from their video games, and excited to eat.  Brisket is delicious but doesn’t have that impact.  Sure, it tastes delicious, but it doesn’t have that sensory impact that a pot of matzo ball soup on the stove does.  So just like the smell of oil, potatoes and onions remind me of my Grandma Esther, the smell of Matzo Ball Soup on the stove will always remind my children of Jewish food, Shabbat, Rosh Hashanah, and Passover.  And the creation of those Jewish memories is what I think will give Matzo Ball Soup the win in the 2021 Passover Madness.


Your Champion – MATZO BALL SOUP